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3musesmerge's avatar

If you're evolving, you shouldn't be the same. So someone says, "Oh, you've changed" -- yes, consider that a compliment, right? You want to change, you want to be different, you want to grow.

~ Dr. Julie Gurner

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Bobby Kountz's avatar

A compliment indeed!

Changing is starting. Starting is changing.

I found the courage to change 33 years ago TODAY!

I changed, one day at a time...

Slowly, over time, as my courage and confidence grew, I transformed. However, I still lived one day at a time. Always, one day at a time...

#ODAAT #JustForToday #KISMIF #CleanAndSober

“Someday, is the box in which we place the things we’ve not yet found the courage to start.”

~TheEarthHeARTist, #Inspired by Eddie Pinero

https://youtu.be/yUJexg_q1_I

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Gary Spangler's avatar

The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.

Lao Tzu

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3musesmerge's avatar

Molly Tuttle — Take the Journey!

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Gary Spangler's avatar

I appreciate the wisdom woven into today’s LoveLetter. I believe getting stuck in a “woe is me” predicament is far from uncommon, and not of our own design. The Fourth of July you wrote of when you were a ten year old child consists of being thwarted in your desire to see your mom. Alone in a kiddie waiting room and lacking any comforting words or arms, parades and fireworks offered a delightful escape!

Having the emotional intelligence to process the feelings and circumstances at that age would be the fate of many at your age. Remaining stuck in that mindset, accompanied by guilt, reminds me of a baby bird having to peck its way out of its shell to reach the oxygen in the air outside! Usually with no help from bystanders.

The comments from The Muses tied a perfect bow on your description of the forces we might struggle with in our self-portrayals as we continue our journey. 🙇🏻

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3musesmerge's avatar

And now I am reminded of a story about a traveler who cuts open a chrysalis for a struggling butterfly. Guess what? Freed without the struggle, it cannot fly because it has not built the muscle strength.

I am incredibly grateful for all of the life mentors who have not tried to save me by cutting open my chrysalis, but instead have nudged and gently provoked me to keep going and growing.

Thank you for your appreciation!

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Gary Spangler's avatar

Singing comes to mind. (I did listen to Molly Tuttle’s “Take The Journey”)

Duets, trios, quartets, choirs. All rely on harmony to successfully blend voices. The lead tenor doesn’t become the soprano!

I believe that in singing our life song we would do well to find others that sing on key and understand the importance of harmony.

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3musesmerge's avatar

Ahhhh! Has the advent of the internet made this easier than ever? Because of my participation in a Creative Workshop through Akimbo, I have been gifted connection with people all over the world. Also, this thriving 3mm community that feeds my soul.

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Jack Bosma's avatar

Wow.

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3musesmerge's avatar

Thank you… I think.

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Jack Herlocker's avatar

And then there are those of us whose minds go in different directions...

Evolution

Revolution

Gun control

Sound of soul

Shooting rockets to the moon

Kids growing up too soon

Politicians say “More taxes will solve everything!”

(and the band played on...)

“Ball of Confusion” — The Temptations

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T-shirt: “I went to visit a famous psychic and knocked on her door. She yelled, ‘WHO IS IT?’, so I left.” 😁

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3musesmerge's avatar

hahahaha! The T-shirt.

I spent part of yesterday listening to a presentation by Wynton Marsalis. Looking forward to listening to the rest. I did myself blown away by this mans wisdom, awareness, humor, and knowledge. I think I just found myself another role model.

https://youtu.be/NSs87xQ9hts

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