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Aug 6, 2022Liked by 3musesmerge

An inspiring post, Gail.

“I’d really like to start Double Dutch, but I have a wooden leg!” (I stole that from “Gestalt Therapy Verbatim” by Fritz Perls, a Gestalt Therapist in the 70’s). He was speaking of people who set unrealistic goals then offer a justification when they fail to achieve that goal. He cited a patient who often spoke of wanting to run a marathon. Except he really did have a wooden leg!🤷🏽

Another view is to set our goals high, the sky’s the limit! In striving to meet those goals we still can achieve great things w/o reaching the ultimate goal?!

I like how “double Dutch” symbolizes team work and shared aspirations. Does “not being in charge” mean you’re okay being a foot soldier? 🙃 Yet you are the field General of 3mm and so much more!

Have you had a chance to watch any Double Dutch competitions? Before smartphones and social media consumed the world, DD was central to African-American life in some boroughs of NYC. The speed in competitions was jaw dropping to me! Some of the DD competitors, from their youth, have preserved the sport!

Thanks for this train of thought!

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Aug 6, 2022Liked by 3musesmerge

SIGN: “PLEASE EXCUSE THE MESS! My kids are making memories.” 😁

> “...ideas aren’t fussy. If you don’t move on them, they’ll find new homes without holding it against you.”

I like it! And not just because it means I don’t have to act on all my ideas! 😉

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