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Apr 8, 2023Liked by 3musesmerge

Your reference back to my stories made me reminisce and smile. You are a wonderful storyteller who is always helping people! ❤️

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Funny... the things we remember. Wheat and Alfredo have never left me even though you never shared any of the stories with me directly. 🤔😁

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Apr 7, 2023Liked by 3musesmerge

‘A storyteller makes up things to help other people; a liar makes up things to help himself.’

I like it, but sometimes we tell stories without regard to what others get out of it — we just need to let them out. (Also applies to poetry. Thoughtful essays, not so much, in my experience.) If someone else gets something out of them, that's just bonus points. 😊

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Sometimes we tell stories because through the telling we learn to trust ourselves! 😉

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For me it is the actual speaking that allows me to trust myself, my voice, more than the words alone.

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What do you mean by “actual speaking”?

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Uttering the words from our mouths verses writing our poems or stories. The “ownership” is unmistakable for speaker and listener in that environment. The degree of “courage” called for is far greater in my experience.

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I agree.

And you are nudging my thoughts. Thank you.

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I wrote “verses” instead of “versus.” 😔

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Apr 8, 2023Liked by 3musesmerge

I really like this:

“sometimes we tell stories without regard to what others get out of it — we just need to let them out.”

Appears from other comments that I’m not alone in liking it 😀

One thing that struck me a few years ago that I’ve tried to cultivate in me started with the simple phrase “writers write.”

At the time, it a guide for writers to take action. (Write any of any length or quality, etc)

But I took it also it from the public, publish or external side.

More specifically -- if I’m a sales guy how do I “writers write.”

It’s no longer the case that I’m surprised by it, but the writers, bloggers, authors and podcasters really have some inspiring habits even outside their areas.

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I’m curious what space you see mimes occupying? While facial expressions and gestures are usually plus-sized, the underlying emotions aren’t necessarily so. Same with ASL, used by & for those with hearing impairment. Facial expressions particularly?

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I agree with Cal’s statement! I’m certain our favorite bloggarina of the 3MM love letters actually does as Cal described. We are the lucky ones. 🙏🏽

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Thank you Gary. 😊

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